Do you think that Michael Jackson can undress you with his eyes? Why not? It’s all in your head, that’s the power of imagination!
To be able to undress someone with his eyes seems very powerful and needs a lot of concentration. How about undressing someone physically? Learn the power of “Dress to undress” to take benefit of the game of “The Law of Leisure”.
Sometime when I introduced myself as a lingerie designer, I came across some women said sadly to me,” Well, I am single!”. They kind of telling me that they could not enjoy my products since they are single. Do you mean that you will not dress up for yourself? For self enjoyment? I kept on telling them, you’ve got to please yourself first before you can please your partner. Treat yourself nicely by dressing up nicely. When you feel that you look good, sexy, your confident level rises up. It will radiant outward, you can then attract people.
We already know that the art of dress to undress has been celebrated through out the history. No matter it is a classical master piece from the history; or from the contemporary artist, they all capture or express that very sensual moment in different forms — paintings, sculptures, movies or even books / poems…
“A Young Girl In A State of Undress” by Jen Juel ( 1745-1802, Danish)
Latifa Medjdpub “Undress Me, 2004” Paper, Silk, Cotton, Nylon, Wood
From the Wisdom at 90, written by Regina Brett, 90 years old, of the Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio “To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most requested column I’ve ever written.” In her #21 lesson, she wrote,” Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.”
Ex-Burlesque Stripper — June St Clair
If making yourself beautiful and sexy make you feel good, why not? After all, as Whitney Houston’s song said, “Learn how to love yourself, it is the greatest love of all.” Do enjoy the process of dressing up, while you had some nice sexy lingerie underneath, you will enjoy the process of undressing yourself too. This is the process of feeling self-conscious. Enjoy the process of dressing yourself up make you feel beautiful while the process of undressing yourself make you feel sexy.
For those who like to cover up a little before they take it all off. It is all about the game, the game of foreplay, the game of seduction, the game of curiosity. It works for single woman to please herself. It works the same for couple too. Either you undress yourself, or have your partner undress you. This is “The Law of Leisure”. It helps in the harmonic atmosphere within the couple. Enjoy!